Tuesday, November 21, 2006

Happy Birthday, Li Jia!
Dearest Lijia,
After knowing me for so many years, I'm sure you should have figured that I always tend to procrastinate. So, instead of mailing you a snail mail birthday card, which would have been much sweeter, I ended up typing this open letter to you.
Can you still remember the first time we met? All of us were sitted at the sports gallery. I think you said 'hi' to both Clara and me. We ended up talking a lot as we had our lunch at Ghim Moh void deck that day. Orientation... Pufferilla... Amongoeth... ZQ... and then 1S03J.. Chinese lessons (or rather the lack of).. Council elections.. Somehow or rather, you were there in almost all the memories of 1st 3 months JC life.
Perhaps that was one reason why I really didn't mind having to go through the heartache of changing schools. Even if I had another choice again, I don't think I'll want to enter NJC during my first 3 months. No. That would mean one less friend whom I didn't really know how to treasure in the past, but who'll always play a really important role in my life. A treasure whom I might be able to do without, but I don't really want to miss.
Jia, thank you for all the laughter, tears and perhaps even the irritation shared. Thank you for tolerating my less-than-nice behaviour when I had a short fuse. Actually, more importantly, thank you for being my friend all these years, and giving me the honour of being one of the rare few who are permitted to call you by your Chinese name.
Happy birthday, dear!
May all your birthday wishes come true and may you always be surrounded by people who love you dearly!
Of course, no matter what the future holds, or whatever decisions you make, you'll always have a friend here who will stand by you!
luv
Fang

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Thank you, fang. You couldn't have wished for better things for me.

Yes I think we shared many interesting experiences and memories. I still keep the letters and notes from you. Written in pink ink and folded in the way that all students in our time folded their secret messages to their Angels and Mortals.

We probably did let go of each other for a while. But am I glad we're here to share that part of our lives where we each did our own individual things and now, we still can continue walkng together towards the future.

This is quite a privilege for me, not many people have the chance to resume friendships from where they left off. There's a couple of friends I have with whom I know things will never be the same again, but you are not one of them. I thank you from the bottom of my heart.