Did you grow a year older or did you grow up by a year?
A Today columnist pondered aloud in his column some time last week. Once again, another year has drawn to a close, what better time to look back and reflect on the year that had passed..
If there was something that I took along from 2010, it'll probably be the realisation that the best present I can give anyone important enough is really my time. Instead of spending a majority of time slaving away at work, 2010 was a year when I took leave more liberally, eg. zoo with Koon or simply lunch with my favourite Mr Tan.. And this, I have to thank another very important person in my life.. For letting me know first hand how devastating it is to watch you down, and the possibility that you would no longer be there to laugh with me, suan me, make mean remarks about me or to show concern to me. Yes, if there was one incident that left the deepest imprint, it would have been that particular 1+ week..
You would have thought that with the lesson learnt, I would have been more liberal with my time. Unfortunately though, there were still instances when I could have done a lot better. I could have dumped everything aside and bugged Mr Tan for lunch on his birthday itself instead of having a belated birthday celebration. Or spent more time with people who mattered.
In any event, a new year, a new beginning. And so, for this year, I resolve to:
(1) have more disposable time to spend with people who matter;
(2) Work harder (unfortunately I think my standard of work is no longer near to that when I was at GLC);
(3) Be healthier (ie. more exercise.. right Mr Lek?);
(4) Be happier.
So what's your resolution?