Sunday, June 06, 2004

"The only thing that doesn't change is change"

Sorry.. Simply had to copy it from another friend's blog.. Whoever you are, just hope you won't mind me using this quote..

Finally, Super Sunday came back onto the 2.30pm slot again. Funny.. when most people were enthusiastically following it, I found it quite a dumb show.. Just when I've begin to appreciate the show and the sunshine it brings weekly, the run of the show is over..

Someone once told me, as we get older, the doors to our heart will close, making it impossible for us to make true friends. I brushed it off without much thought then. Come to think of it, there's so much wisdom in that phrase.

If we were to reflect deeply, how many friends can we truly label as the friend we truly care for, and not be with, subconsciously or otherwise, for some other reasons? Can you truly say that someone else is your friend just because of who they are, and not what they are? Even if you were truly friends at the start, are you able to confidently say that you all would remain so for a long while?

People come and go throughout our lives. Those who put in much more end up being hurt much more usually. And so, they grow up becoming more scarred, and more wary of people. It's no longer simply the 'I friend you, I don't friend you' stuff, but more of the 'I don't really like you, but I should still continue to be nice, yah?' And then, the whole human relationship chain becomes wrought with fakeness.. and coldness..

interesting isn't it?

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

"Someone once told me, as we get older, the doors to our heart will close, making it impossible for us to make true friends"
True... Strange why our close friends were usually those found during adolesent and late teens...
As the world changes, we have to change too. Or else we'll be left behind...
Oh... and also i know whom you quote it from ;-P
--Angel--

YaoFang said...

so who did i quote that from?

Anonymous said...

you supposed to guess who i am. i can't possibly say rite? ;-P
--Angel--

YaoFang said...

duhz.. i'm not asking who you are, right? since you said you know who i quoted that part from.. i'm asking you who that person is..

Anonymous said...

not important. you continue to guess who i am.
--Angel--

YaoFang said...

sorry.. but i don't think i'm that interested to guess already..